The Boys in Schools Conference: Behaviour, Wellbeing & What Works


Something is shifting in Australian schools.
Boys are withdrawing, acting out, or switching off – and the causes aren’t random. Outdated masculine norms, algorithms, and a widening gap between how we talk to boys and what they actually need are colliding in classrooms every day.
Those closest to those boys are doing extraordinary work with limited tools and almost no space to stop, think, and connect with others facing the same challenges.
This isn’t a day of passive presentations. It’s built around experience, intentional intervention, and shared problem-solving with people who get it. Â It’s your chance to have critical conversations about what needs to happen at your school to change the trajectory of student behaviour and outcomes.Â
This event runs as part of the ‘National Engaging Men & Boys to End the Cycle of Violence’ conference. You’ll be joining a larger room of educators, professionals and advocates all there for the same reason – better outcomes for boys.
The issues won’t wait, and neither should you.
Your event experience
Policy conversation on men & boys with Federal Special Envoy Dan Repacholi MP
Educators in conversation – mental health, trauma and what it looks like in classrooms
A live Man Cave session –Â you’re the participants, not the audience, plus a facilitated debrief
Research on attachment theory and what genuinely protects boys from harm
Tech, AI and the manosphere – what boys are seeing online and why it’s escalating
Expert panel on gendered harm, platform design and the whole-school response
Student voices on stage – hear directly from young men who’ve completed the Leading Men program
Speakers
Dr Louise McCuaig
Head of the Flinders Discovery Institute, Program Leader - Leading Men
Matthew Flinders Anglican College
Matt Tyler
Adjunct Associate Professor, Monash University
Member - East Asia & Pacific Hub Board, Childlight
Professor Kate Fitz-Gibbon (She/Her)
Professor (Practice), Leadership and Executive Education (LEE), Faculty of Business and Economics, Monash University
& Founder, Sequre Consulting
Dr Krista Fisher
Research Fellow, Movember Institute of Men's Health & Honorary Fellow
& Honorary Fellow, University of Melbourne
What you will walk away with
What’s really driving disengagement, dysregulation and aggression in male students
Practical language and frameworks for masculinity, consent and relationships
How the manosphere and AI-enabled harm are showing up in your school right now
Evidence on what actually protects boys – not just what puts them at risk
A lived Man Cave experience – you’re in the room as participants, not observers
Connection with educators across Australia, wrestling with the same challenges
Who will attend
This day is relevant for anyone in educational settings who works alongside boys and young men — whether you’re shaping policy, managing student behaviour and wellbeing, or sitting across a desk from a student.
- Principals and Deputy Principals
- Year level coordinators and pastoral care staff
- Leaders of Student Wellbeing
- School Counsellors and Psychologists
- School leadership teams developing whole-school approaches
Agenda
All times shown in AEDT
Acknowledgement of Country & Opening remarks

Shaan Ross-Smith
Co-Director
Be There Group
Raising the standard: What it takes to engage men & boys in change
From government investment to grassroots action, this candid conversation explores how policy, lived experience, and programs like The Man Cave are working together to reach men and boys before harm takes hold — and what it will take to make that change last.
CHAIR
Ben Vasiliou
Chief Executive Officer
The Man Cave

Dan Repacholi MP
Federal Member for Hunter
Special Envoy for Men’s Health
Educators in conversation: What’s happening in our classrooms?
- Exploring how mental health, trauma and stress translate into classroom behaviour, attendance and engagement
- Recognising signs such as disengagement, fatigue, emotional dysregulation and behavioural escalation
- Understanding the flow-on impact for teachers, school wellbeing teams and learning environments
- Educating children and young people about boundaries, consent and healthy relationships
Moderated by The Man Cave
*Dr Louise McCuaig will be joined alongside two male students who have completed their program

Dr Louise McCuaig
Head of the Flinders Discovery Institute, Program Leader - Leading Men
Matthew Flinders Anglican College

Katherine Lye
Deputy Principal
Burwood Girls High School

Rebecca Butterworth
Principal
Hunter Valley Grammar School
Morning tea
Inside the room: What boys experience every day
The session follows The Man Cave’s actual student program structure.
The goal is to feel what a boy feels in that room: the pull to shut down, the pressure to perform, and — when the conditions are right — the surprising relief of being seen.
After the experience, a facilitated debrief gives the group space to unpack what landed, what challenged them, and what it reveals about the young men they work with every day.
Lunch
What safeguards men & boys from using violence?
- Understanding attachment theory and its relevance to adult intimate partner relationships
- Examining how insecure attachment patterns can contribute to controlling and violent behaviours
- Exploring the role of early role modelling in shaping beliefs about power, gender and relationships
- Identifying protective factors associated with secure attachment and emotional regulation

Tony Johannsen
Director, Clinical Practice, Evidence and Quality
Family Life
Faster than you think: How tech, AI & the manosphere are reshaping boys
- What boys and young men are actually seeing online – algorithms and the growing chasm between male and female digital worlds
- How manosphere influencers are normalising controlling and violent behaviours in Australian schools
- AI-enabled gendered violence as a new category of harm – and why platform design, not user behaviour, is the real accountability question
- Why the response must move at the speed of the problem

Dr Krista Fisher
Research Fellow, Movember Institute of Men's Health & Honorary Fellow
& Honorary Fellow, University of Melbourne

Daniel Principe
Youth Advocate and Educator

Representative, The Man Cave
Afternoon tea
Understanding boys; Victimisation: help-seeking, service gaps & opportunities to prevent intergenerational violence
- Why boys as victim-survivors remain under-recognised — and what needs to change
- How help-seeking behaviours differ for boys, and why services aren’t keeping pace
- The perpetration lens: how viewing boys primarily as risks is failing them
- Unpacking evidence drawn from child interviews, the AFVA study, and national stakeholder consultation

Matt Tyler
Adjunct Associate Professor, Monash University
Member - East Asia & Pacific Hub Board, Childlight

Professor Kate Fitz-Gibbon
Professor (Practice), Leadership and Executive Education (LEE), Faculty of Business and Economics, Monash University
& Founder, Sequre Consulting
Closing remarks and close of conference
Venue: Rydges World Square, 389 Pitt St, Sydney NSW 2000
Sydney, Gadigal Land & Online
Benefits of attending in-person: This is the perfect networking opportunity for leaders, in an environment that will set you up to build new connections and a support network of like-minded peers!
Food & catering requirements: Catering is provided at all in-person events presented by The Hatchery. Dietary requirements and special needs are to be communicated to event organisers one week prior to the event commencing. Please identify yourself to The Hatchery staff upon arrival to ensure all your needs are met.
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A thought-provoking event that provided the opportunity to throw around ideas with some of the best minds in Australian education.
Greg Ashman
Deputy Principal, Ballarat Clarendon College
The conference delivered explicit instruction at its finest. Giving a clear picture of the destination, then equipping us with the clear, actionable steps to get there.
Siobhan Lamb
Director, Department of Infrastructure, Transport, Regional Development, Communications, Sport and the Arts
The Hatchery gathered and coordinated a highly skilled and effective team of presenters. The sessions were engaging and most importantly, provided a range of practical strategies and ideas that we could implement at our school.
Warren Lorgar
Leader of Wellbeing - Behaviour Support, MacKillop College Port Macquarie
The Hatchery’s Conference provided teachers with evidence-based research on best practices and practical ideas to take away and implement.
Janine Timillero
Head of Professional Growth, Newington College NSW
I am currently working with staff on the notion of collective efficacy and the power of taking a collaborative, streamlined approach to improve outcomes for staff and students. This day of learning, presented by The Hatchery, has left me reassured regarding the direction we are moving in and has given me a number of ideas to explore as we continually work to add value to staff and student experiences of learning
Stephanie Lazarides
Deputy Head of Middle School Boys, Penleigh and Essenden Grammar School

