Engaging Men & Boys to End the Cycle of Violence Conference


Violence doesn’t begin with a fist. It begins with unchallenged norms, unaddressed trauma, and a system that still doesn’t know how to engage men or support boys before crisis hits.
Now in its 5th year, this landmark two-day conference brings together Australia’s leading researchers, frontline practitioners, survivor advocates, and policymakers to confront one of our most urgent national challenges — and map what comes next.
Across two days and two specialist streams, you’ll explore what actually drives men to use violence, what stops them, and what the sector can do to evolve. From coercive control and behaviour change programs to early prevention, fatherhood, schools, digital harm, and the manosphere – every session is built for people doing the hard work.
Hear from 40+ speakers, including world-leading experts, First Nations voices, and lived experience advocates.
Walk away with evidence, tools, and a network ready to act.
This is not another conference about the problem. It’s about what we do next.
Your event experience
Learn from a powerhouse speaker lineup – global experts including David Mandel in person & Lori Heise alongside frontline practitioners, First Nations leaders & lived experience advocates
Don’t just listen – participate, with guided reflective sessions & a live, in-room Man Cave workshop that puts you in the boys’ seat
Choose your own path across specialist streams: boys & education, behaviour change practice, and therapeutic & trauma-informed approaches
Stay ahead of the curve with essential updates on coercive control, the manosphere, AI-enabled harm & the latest Ten to Men evidence
Connect with peers from community, government, justice, health & education sectors who are doing the same hard work you are
Speakers
Dr Zac Seidler
Clinical psychologist, Global Director - Men’s Health Research, Movember
and Associate Professor with Orygen, The University of Melbourne
Charlie Rowe
Proud Kamilaroi man, Chief Executive Officer, Aboriginal Family Legal Services Queensland (AFLSQ)
Lead facilitator, Bamba Mari Men’s Program (“Strong Aboriginal Man” program)
Professor Kate Fitz-Gibbon (She/Her)
Professor (Practice), Leadership and Executive Education (LEE), Faculty of Business and Economics, Monash University
& Founder, Sequre Consulting
Dr Sean Martin
A/g Group Head, Data & Lifecourse Studies & Ten to Men Program Lead
Australian Institute of Family Studies (AIFS)
Dr Louise McCuaig
Head of the Flinders Discovery Institute, Program Leader - Leading Men
Matthew Flinders Anglican College
Hannah Fahour
Research Officer, Monash Gender & Family Violence Prevention Hub
Monash University
Prof Michael Flood
Faculty of Creative Industries, Education & Social Justice, School of Justice
Queensland University of Technology (QUT)
Matt Tyler
Adjunct Associate Professor, Monash University
Member - East Asia & Pacific Hub Board, Childlight
Michele Campbell
Clinical Director
The Network of Alcohol and Other Drug Agencies NSW (NADA )
Patrick O’Leary
Co-Director Disrupting Violence Research Beacon, Griffith University
Chief Investigator, The ARC Centre of Excellence for The Elimination of Violence Against Women
Dr Krista Fisher
Research Fellow, Movember Institute of Men's Health & Honorary Fellow
& Honorary Fellow, University of Melbourne
Jeffery Amatto
Proud Wiradjuri man, Chief Executive Officer & Founder, More Cultural Rehabs Less Jails
Founder, Yindamara Men's Healing Group
Benefits of attending
Hear 40+ experts, including world-leading researchers & First Nations voices
Get inside the evidence on what drives men’s violence & what stops it
Tackle emerging harms including AI, the manosphere & digital pipelines to violence
Tailor your learning across two streams: boys, behaviour change & trauma
Take home practical tools for prevention, early intervention & practice
What’s new in 2026?
- A stream dedicated to therapeutic, trauma-informed & trauma-capable practice
- The Man Cave live in the room — experience their program first-hand as a participant, not an observer, followed by facilitated group debriefs
- Guided reflective in-room sessions built into the agenda to help you process and apply what you’re hearing
- Student voices on stage — hear directly from young men who’ve completed the Leading Men program
- A political spotlight, with the Commonwealth Government Special Envoy for Men’s Health Dan Repacholi MP
Who will attend
Representatives of the community, government, police, justice, recovery & education sectors with responsibilities that include:
- Men’s Behaviour Change
- Family & Domestic Violence
- Women, Children & Families
- Violence Prevention
- Mental Health
- Alcohol & Other Drugs (AOD)
- Rehabilitation & Counselling
- Youth Services
- Student Wellbeing & Behaviour
Agenda
Day 2 sessions will be presented in curated streams, allowing you to pick the pathway that best resonates with your learning journey.
Morning
STREAM A: Reaching boys: Prevention, identity & change
STREAM B: Behind the behaviour: Men, violence & change
Afternoon
STREAM A: Reaching boys: Prevention, identity & change
STREAM B: Therapeutic, trauma-informed & trauma-capable practice
All times shown are in AEDT
Welcome to Country
Opening remarks
CHAIR
Shaan Ross-Smith
Co-Director
Be There Group
What I missed: A bystander’s guide to recognising coercive control
- Naming what coercive control actually looks like — the signs hiding in plain sight that friends, family, and colleagues walk past every day
- Dismantling the stereotype that domestic and family violence only happens to ‘certain kinds of people’ in ‘certain kinds of relationships’
- Equipping bystanders with the language and confidence to start the conversations that laws alone cannot start — and lives depend on
- Showing why cultural change, not just legal reform, is the only intervention that reaches everyone before it is too late

Dave Kramer
Behavioural Scientist and Violence Prevention Advocate and Educator
Men’s behaviour change programs: What works, what’s missing & what’s next
- Reframing what ‘success’ means for MBCPs — moving beyond program completion and recidivism data
- Making the case for MBCPs as one essential piece of a coordinated system
- Presenting the evidence for tailored, trauma-informed approaches that address co-occurring factors — alcohol use, mental health, fathering, and housing instability — alongside gendered drivers
- Reflecting on the need for sustained, flexible funding that matches the complexity of behaviour change
- Reflecting on the critical insights that must shape action

Allison Wainwright
Chief Executive Officer
Family Life

Jeffery Amatto
Proud Wiradjuri man, Chief Executive Officer & Founder, More Cultural Rehabs Less Jails
Founder, Yindamara Men's Healing Group

Dr Tessa Boyd-Caine
Chief Executive Officer
ANROWS
Morning tea
The missing half: Why systems don’t see men & boys & the cost we all pay
- Invisibility by system design
- Engagement is not the problem — design is
- The cost of exclusion and who carries it?
- Designing what’s missing]
- The future of systems design — all of family, all of community

Allison Wainwright
Chief Executive Officer
Family Life
Men’s health & men’s violence: Can we do both at the same time?
- Why entitlement – not anger – is the root of coercive control & poor men’s health
- The reversed arrow most systems miss: Abuse drives depression, substance use & suicidality
- Suicidality, mental health and substance use as pattern, not excuse: how to assess what a man does when he’s struggling and how it lands on partners and children
- Why we can’t consider a man’s internal states and feelings in isolation
- A perpetrator pattern-based framework for working with men that shifts focus to engaging fathers meaningfully – and recognises that boys’ and men’s poor health often has its roots in the violence of other men

David Mandel, MA, LPC
CEO, Founder & Co-Owner
Safe & Together Institute
Guided reflective in-room session
Lunch
From evidence to action: Men, boys & the future of prevention
- What ‘healthy masculinities’ actually means — how evidence defines and measures it, and why getting the definition right shapes everything that follows
- What AIFS’s Ten to Men research tells us about when and how men start using violence — and why delays in evidence-informed intervention cost lives
- What it takes to translate government investment into behaviour change at the scale the problem demands
- Holding the full picture: mental health, accountability, early intervention, and frontline funding

Dr Sean Martin
A/g Group Head, Data & Lifecourse Studies & Ten to Men Program Lead
Australian Institute of Family Studies (AIFS)

Prof Michael Flood
Faculty of Creative Industries, Education & Social Justice, School of Justice
Queensland University of Technology (QUT)

Starlady
Director
The Belle Collective

Daniel Principe
Youth Advocate and Educator
Engaging First Nations men in behaviour change: Culturally safe approaches that build responsibility & connection
- Building trust while addressing violence and accountability
- Using culturally grounded approaches to support behaviour change
- Navigating trauma, shame and resistance in group settings
- Encouraging reflection through culturally safe discussions

Charlie Rowe
Proud Kamilaroi man, Chief Executive Officer, Aboriginal Family Legal Services Queensland (AFLSQ)
Lead facilitator, Bamba Mari Men’s Program (“Strong Aboriginal Man” program)
Afternoon tea
Beyond our own domains: Building collaboration across the field
The men and boys field spans physical and mental health, fathering, boys’ education, domestic and sexual violence prevention, gender equity, technology and AI, sexual and reproductive health, and violent extremism, among many others. Yet much of the national conversation continues to focus on only a small part of that landscape.
This session will explore what becomes possible when we recognise the full breadth of the field, respect the unique contribution of each domain, and identify the shared principles that can help improve outcomes for boys, men and communities.
CHAIR
Ben Vasiliou
Chief Executive Officer
The Man Cave
ANROWS Keynote

Dr Tessa Boyd-Caine
Chief Executive Officer
ANROWS
Closing remarks and networking drinks
Choose your own journey.
The morning & afternoon sessions will be presented in curated streams, allowing you to pick the pathway that best resonates with your learning journey.
Choose from Stream A or Stream B for your morning session
STREAM A
Reaching boys: Prevention, identity & change
Acknowledgement of Country & Opening remarks
CHAIR
Shaan Ross-Smith
Co-Director
Be There Group
Raising the standard: What it takes to engage men & boys in change
From government investment to grassroots action, this candid conversation explores how policy, lived experience, and programs like The Man Cave are working together to reach men and boys before harm takes hold — and what it will take to make that change last.
CHAIR
Ben Vasiliou
Chief Executive Officer
The Man Cave

Dan Repacholi MP
Federal Member for Hunter
Special Envoy for Men’s Health
Educators in conversation: What’s happening in our classrooms?
- Exploring how mental health, trauma and stress translate into classroom behaviour, attendance and engagement
- Recognising signs such as disengagement, fatigue, emotional dysregulation and behavioural escalation
- Understanding the flow-on impact for teachers, school wellbeing teams and learning environments
- Educating children and young people about boundaries, consent and healthy relationships
Moderated by The Man Cave
*Dr Louise McCuaig will be joined alongside two male students who have completed their program

Dr Louise McCuaig
Head of the Flinders Discovery Institute, Program Leader - Leading Men
Matthew Flinders Anglican College

Katherine Lye
Deputy Principal
Burwood Girls High School

Rebecca Butterworth
Principal
Hunter Valley Grammar School
Morning tea
Inside the room: What boys experience every day
The session follows The Man Cave’s actual student program structure.
The goal is to feel what a boy feels in that room: the pull to shut down, the pressure to perform, and — when the conditions are right — the surprising relief of being seen.
After the experience, a facilitated debrief gives the group space to unpack what landed, what challenged them, and what it reveals about the young men they work with every day.
Lunch
STREAM B
Behind the behaviour: Men, violence & change
Acknowledgement of Country & Opening remarks
CHAIR
Kirsty Tschirpig
Co-Director
Be There Group
Disadvantage & fatherhood: Breaking down barriers to engaged dads
- What longitudinal data reveals about father involvement and child well-being
- The structural and cultural barriers keeping marginalised men at the edges
- What works on the ground — fathering hubs, incarcerated dads and early touchpoints
- Building father-inclusive systems that engage men before risk brings them in

Tim Wemyss
NSW Community Fathering Manager
The Fathering Project

Dr Elisabeth Duursma
Researcher
Western Sydney University

Dr Zac Seidler
Clinical psychologist, Global Director - Men’s Health Research, Movember
and Associate Professor with Orygen, The University of Melbourne

Racheal Dungay
Founder & Chairperson
Ngarra Aboriginal Corporation
One size doesn’t fit all: Tailored strategies for engaging boys, low-risk men & high-harm perpetrators
- Addressing boys’ unmet needs by creating alternative narratives for belonging and identity beyond the internet and gaming culture
- Engaging low-risk men as allies through invitational approaches like Equimundo and MenEngage’s “Caring Manhood” — not framing them as potential perpetrators
- Targeting the small percentage of high-harm men responsible for the majority of serious and escalating violence
- Applying lessons from the UK on responding to the most violent perpetrators with a distinct strategy

Lori Heise
Co-Founder & Director
The Prevention Collaborative
Guided reflective in-room session
Morning Tea
When harm began early: Men, childhood trauma & violence
- Presenting what we know from men who were sexually abused in childhood — and what it means for risk
- Examining the links between childhood trauma, suicidality, mental health and violence perpetration
- Building interventions that hold accountability and trauma-informed care in the same frame
- The critical role of professionally facilitated peer support and how it informs service

Patrick O’Leary
Co-Director Disrupting Violence Research Beacon, Griffith University
Chief Investigator, The ARC Centre of Excellence for The Elimination of Violence Against Women

Representative, The Survivors and Mates Support Network (SAMSN)
Alcohol, mental health & violence: Evidence, practice & what’s next?
- Unpacking what the evidence says about alcohol, mental health and violence perpetration
- Examining how masculine norms shape harmful drinking and the use of violence
- Making the case for integrated AOD, mental health and behaviour change responses
- Arguing for alcohol regulation and mental health investment as violence prevention
- Creating healing-informed, strengths-based and culturally responsive services

Ayla Chorley
Chief Executive Officer
Foundation for Alcohol Research & Education (FARE)

Hanan Dover
Clinical and Forensic Psychologist & Founder
Mission of Hope

Michele Campbell
Clinical Director
The Network of Alcohol and Other Drug Agencies NSW (NADA )
Lunch
Streamed sessions re-commence
Choose from Stream A or Stream B for your afternoon session
STREAM A
Reaching boys: Prevention, identity & change
What safeguards men & boys from using violence?
- Understanding attachment theory and its relevance to adult intimate partner relationships
- Examining how insecure attachment patterns can contribute to controlling and violent behaviours
- Exploring the role of early role modelling in shaping beliefs about power, gender and relationships
- Identifying protective factors associated with secure attachment and emotional regulation

Tony Johannsen
Director, Clinical Practice, Evidence and Quality
Family Life
Faster than you think: How tech, AI & the manosphere are reshaping boys
- What boys and young men are actually seeing online – algorithms and the growing chasm between male and female digital worlds
- How manosphere influencers are normalising controlling and violent behaviours in Australian schools
- AI-enabled gendered violence as a new category of harm – and why platform design, not user behaviour, is the real accountability question
- Why the response must move at the speed of the problem

Dr Stephanie Wescott
Lecturer - School of Education, Culture & Society
Monash University

Dr Krista Fisher
Research Fellow, Movember Institute of Men's Health & Honorary Fellow
& Honorary Fellow, University of Melbourne

Daniel Principe
Youth Advocate and Educator

Representative, The Man Cave
Afternoon tea
Understanding boys; Victimisation: help-seeking, service gaps & opportunities to prevent intergenerational violence
- Why boys as victim-survivors remain under-recognised — and what needs to change
- How help-seeking behaviours differ for boys, and why services aren’t keeping pace
- The perpetration lens: how viewing boys primarily as risks is failing them
- Unpacking evidence drawn from child interviews, the AFVA study, and national stakeholder consultation

Matt Tyler
Adjunct Associate Professor, Monash University
Member - East Asia & Pacific Hub Board, Childlight

Professor Kate Fitz-Gibbon (She/Her)
Professor (Practice), Leadership and Executive Education (LEE), Faculty of Business and Economics, Monash University
& Founder, Sequre Consulting
Closing remarks and close of conference
STREAM B:
Therapeutic, trauma-informed & trauma-capable practice
Working with resistance, mandation & low motivation in behaviour change practice
- Understanding resistance as communication rather than non-compliance
- Differentiating between ambivalence, defiance, fear and disengagement
- Exploring the impact of mandate on trust, motivation and participation
- Identifying practitioner responses that escalate or reduce resistance
- Managing group settings where disengagement is active or contagious

Dean Cooper
DFV Educator and Consultant
Cooper Consultancy
Trauma, accountability consciousness & behaviour change
- Exploring potential innovations in perpetrator intervention
- Understanding the role of altered states of consciousness in therapeutic contexts
- Investigating psychological mechanisms that may support FDV desistance and responsibility for harm
- Feminist safeguards for clinically integrated perpetrator intervention research

Dr Paul Liknaitzky
Head - Clinical Psychedelic Lab, Dept Psychiatry
Monash University

Hannah Fahour
Research Officer, Monash Gender & Family Violence Prevention Hub
Monash University

Professor Kate Fitz-Gibbon (She/Her)
Professor (Practice), Leadership and Executive Education (LEE), Faculty of Business and Economics, Monash University
& Founder, Sequre Consulting

Tony Johannsen
Director, Clinical Practice, Evidence and Quality
Family Life
Afternoon tea
How to speak with the user of violence when working with shame
- Understanding shame as a driver of defensive and protective behaviour in violent contexts
- Differentiating accountability from shame induction in practitioner conversations
- Recognising affective responses such as panic, anger, withdrawal and minimisation
- Exploring how shame interacts with power, control and identity in DFV contexts

Joel Palmer
Founder, Joel Palmer Consulting
Practice Manager, Lithgow Community Projects
Closing remarks and close of conference
From Insight to Practice – Assessing Men’s Health & Men’s Violence, & Partnering for Safety
This workshop picks up where the keynote ends. Working with men who use violence means taking their mental health, substance use and distress seriously — without letting any of it become an excuse. Through case material, mapping tools, and guided practice, participants will assess men’s wellbeing as a behavioural pattern and partner with survivors to strengthen safety and accountability. Practical and hands-on for anyone working with men as fathers, partners and clients.
Attend & learn
- Apply a pattern-based lens to depression, suicidality & substance use
- Assess risk bi-directionally: wellbeing driving violence & vice versa
- Recognise suicidal threats used as coercive control & respond firmly
- Use the partnering approach to surface survivors’ protective efforts
- Document behaviour & impact in language that holds up in legal settings
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David Mandel, MA, LPC
CEO, Founder & Co-Owner
Safe & Together Institute
Venue: Rydges World Square, 389 Pitt St, Sydney NSW 2000
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In a small sector that holds itself responsible for outcomes in such a social crisis, it was amazing to talk with and hear from specialists in the field. The wisdom gained and shared was empowering and enlightening.”
Reuben Dwyer
Snr Prac, Men’s Behaviour Change Program, 54 Reasons, 4th Annual Engaging Men and Boys Conference March 2025
This conference provided me with the inspiration, courage and up-to-date research and practice knowledge to push me on to improve my own direct work with men who use violence. Thank you for the learning and the wisdom.”
Daniel Suggit
Practitioner: Violence Prevention and Counselling Services, EveryMan Australia, 4th Annual Engaging Men and Boys Conference March 2025
I have attended many training and conferences, but this was by far the most interesting and exciting event. I attended virtually with an open mind and at the conclusion of day two, I was upset that it had come to an end. It was just fantastic to be a part of this conference. It gave me hope moving forward within the space of men and boys who are using violence. It also reiterated the importance of prevention rather than cure. I hope I can attend next year’s conference. “
Mahmude Doungas
Advanced Men's Practice Leader – Outer East Orange Door, Anglicare Vic, 4th Annual Engaging Men and Boys Conference March 2025
As a first-time attendee, the conference exceeded my expectations. I really appreciated the diversity of topics and the calibre of speakers and presentations. The conference was highly thought-provoking and contemporary, providing me with great insights and learnings.”
Liane McDermott
Senior Research Fellow, Queensland Centre for Domestic and Family Violence Research, 4th Annual Engaging Men and Boys Conference March 2025
An incredible two days of learning that stretched my mind and enriched my practice. It was a programme featuring amazing speakers who are experts in their fields. I felt truly energised when I returned to work with the wealth of knowledge I had gained.”
Sarah Barry
Social change and response practitioner, Tautoko Mai Sexual Harm Support, 4th Annual Engaging Men and Boys Conference March 2025
The calibre of speakers and the thoughtful curation of content made for a compelling and insightful event. It was a valuable opportunity to connect with professionals from across the sector, and it was really motivating to hear the consistent theme of collaboration and integration across services, which is vital in effectively addressing and breaking the cycle of abuse.”
Kylie Lynch
Education & Engagement Officer, Women & Children First, 4th Annual Engaging Men and Boys Conference March 2025

